The Gay Naples Guide (Italy 🇮🇹)

Two happy gay boys at the Piazza Plebiscito

Naples is an ancient city in Southern Italy where the old and new collide in the most delightful ways. From ancient traditions to modern flair, this guide uncovers the best of Naples—from its rich history and vibrant culture to its mouthwatering cuisine (can we just eat Neapolitan pizza everyday?!) and welcoming LGBTQ+ scene. Whether you’re diving into historic landmarks, devouring incredible pizza, or exploring the lively gay nightlife, Naples is a playground of experiences.

Gay Naples Map

FAQ for Naples, Italy

What is the difference between Naples and Napoli?

"Naples" has little in common with Naples, Florida, apart from the fact that both are located near the beach. The name "Naples" comes from the Italian "Napoli," which is derived from the Greek "Neapolis," meaning "New City." Founded in the 8th century BC by Greek settlers, Neapolis was established as a thriving new urban center in the heart of the Mediterranean. The name reflects the city's ancient origins and its long-standing importance as a cultural and economic hub in the region.

Vesuvius being a dormant monster in the background!

Ominous picture much?!

What is Naples famous for?

Naples is famous for its rich history, stunning coastal scenery, and vibrant culture. As one of the oldest continuously inhabited cities in the world, it has seen the rise and fall of empires, each leaving its mark on the city's architecture and traditions. The historic center of Naples, a UNESCO World Heritage Site, is known for its maze of narrow streets, ancient churches, and lively markets. Naples is also the birthplace of pizza and is celebrated for its culinary scene. The city serves as a gateway to other famous destinations like the Amalfi Coast, Pompeii, and Capri, making it a must-see for travelers in Italy.

Naples’ Quartieri Spagnoli

Is Naples worth visiting?

Absolutely, Naples is a city that should be on every traveler's list. With its booming tourism economy, Naples is one of the fastest-growing tourist destinations in Italy. The rise of Airbnb has transformed the city's landscape, making it more accessible and attractive to visitors from all over the world.

Naples is a must-see city, not only because it's the birthplace of pizza—a reason in itself to visit—but also because of its unique atmosphere. The city has a special vibe, likely influenced by its location beneath the looming presence of Mount Vesuvius. This proximity to an active volcano has shaped the Neapolitan mindset, fostering a culture that values living in the moment. This philosophy is reflected in the city's lively streets, vibrant traditions, and deep-rooted superstitions.

One of the most famous symbols of Neapolitan superstition is the cornetto, a small horn-shaped charm believed to protect against the evil eye. Then there's the smorfia, a traditional system of interpreting dreams and turning them into lucky lottery numbers—another testament to the city's unique blend of mysticism and practicality.

Visiting Naples offers not just a dive into its rich history and delicious cuisine, but also an exploration of its distinctive lifestyle and traditions. And while you're exploring the city, you'll also find a growing LGBTQ+ scene, adding another layer to its diverse and colorful character. Naples is a city that invites you to dig deep, discover its hidden gems, and embrace its vibrant, multifaceted culture.

Always dressed in a tank top, even in November, even when eating Napoli pizza

Best Hotels to Stay in Naples

Looking for the perfect spot to stay in Naples? To make the most of your visit, avoid less central areas with fewer amenities. For the best experience, choose a hotel near Piazza Bellini or the Port of Naples, which offer convenient access to major attractions and vibrant nightlife. Naples ranges from budget-friendly to luxury accommodations, so you’ll find options to fit various budgets.

While 2 nights can give you a taste of the city, more time is ideal to fully explore its rich history and culture. Here are some top hotel picks to consider:

• ROMEO Napoli: Prime location at the Port of Naples.
• Hotel Piazza Bellini & Apartments: Stylish and central.
• Grand Hotel Parker's: Elegant stay with stunning views.

What It's Like Being LGBTQ+ in Naples

Gay life in Naples is a fascinating blend of contrasts, where traditional values and modern attitudes coexist. The city, known for its celebration of strong, masculine identities—particularly through its passion for football and the legendary Diego Maradona—also exhibits a surprising level of acceptance and tolerance towards the LGBTQ+ community. This openness is influenced by Naples' historical connections to ancient Greek and Roman traditions. The growing LGBTQ+ scene, with its bars, clubs, and events, offers a unique environment where tradition and contemporary values intersect. In Italy, same-sex relationships are legally recognized, and anti-discrimination laws provide protection. While Naples is generally safe for LGBTQ+ individuals, it's wise to stay alert, especially in certain areas.

The femminiello is a traditional figure in Neapolitan culture, representing gender fluidity and acceptance. Historically linked to Greek mythology, a femminiello is typically a male who assumes a feminine identity. Far from being marginalized, femminielli are often seen as bearers of good luck and are respected within society. They participate in cultural and religious events, reflecting Naples' complex relationship with gender and sexuality. This tradition offers LGBTQ+ visitors a glimpse into the city's unique cultural heritage, blending ancient practices with contemporary life.

Naples' LGBTQ+ Scene: Top Gay Bars, Gay Clubs, and Gay Saunas

The scene in Naples for gay travelers is vibrant and centered around Piazza Bellini, an area bustling with cafes, bars, and a lively university atmosphere. This neighborhood offers several gay-friendly venues and is a great starting point for exploring the city’s LGBTQ+ nightlife. Here’s a guide to some of the key spots:

Gay Bars in Naples and Gay Clubs in Naples

Volver Caffè: Located near Piazza Bellini, this café is a popular hangout for the LGBTQ+ community and a great place to enjoy a drink.

Intra Moenia Caffè Letterario: A welcoming café and literary spot with a friendly atmosphere for all.

Lemma Lemme Bar: Situated in Piazza Bellini, this bar is known for its inclusive environment and lively crowd.

Depot Napoli: A fetish cruising bar offering a unique experience on Via Melisurgo.

Cactus Hot Bar: A cruising bar spread over two levels, popular for its dynamic ambiance.

Anatema Party: An LGBTQ+ event held at Club Shine every Saturday, featuring vibrant parties and entertainment.

The Club Venus: Hosts queer events at Discoteca Paradiso, known for its inclusive and exciting nightlife.

LCND Party: A Neapolitan version of Berlin's renowned underground techno parties, offering a unique experience.

Antico Grottino Bar: A cozy bar located at Vico Sergente Maggiore 29, offering a friendly environment for all.

Dejavu Napoli: Known for organizing vibrant LGBTQ+ parties and events throughout Naples.

Gay Saunas in Naples

Sauna Blu Angels: The only dedicated gay sauna in Naples, known for its friendly and relaxed atmosphere.

Gay Beaches in Naples

For those interested in beaches, a map highlighting gay-friendly beaches outside of Naples is available.

Naples Pride

Naples Pride is held on the yearly (typically in June), so make sure to stay up to date with our gay pride calendar.

McFit Naples Restroom: Is It Fetish-Friendly?

Where to Eat the Best Pizza in Naples

Naples is the birthplace of pizza, with a rich history dating back to the late 18th century. The classic Neapolitan pizza features a thin, crispy crust with simple yet high-quality ingredients. Among the various types, pizza fritta—a deep-fried pizza—is a local specialty that's both unique and delicious.

While you can find excellent pizza throughout Naples, some places are especially renowned. Pizzeria Da Michele and Pizzeria Sorbillo are famous for their traditional Margherita and Marinara pizzas, attracting visitors from around the world.

My personal favorite was the pizza fritta at Pizzeria Da Staiano—its crispy, flavorful perfection made it a standout experience. Overall, whether you're dining at a legendary pizzeria or a cozy local spot, the pizza in Naples is universally excellent.

Ryan, hangrily awaiting pizza

The infamous 'Pizza Fritta'

What to See in Naples

Museo di Capodimonte: An art museum housed in a grand Bourbon palace, featuring an impressive collection of Renaissance and Baroque art. We had the chance to visit during a "Night at the Museum" event, which was unforgettable. There was even a concert held inside the museum.

Museo di Capodimonte is a must at night

Museo di Capodimonte is a must at night

Quartieri Spagnoli: A vibrant neighborhood known for its narrow streets, colorful facades, and rich local culture. It provides an authentic glimpse into daily Neapolitan life with its lively atmosphere and local eateries. Be sure to visit Pasticceria Scaturchio. We enjoyed an aperitivo and pastries so much that we couldn't resist returning the next day!

A babà, devoured before we had a chance to snap a good photo.

Naples Underground🔦: If you're looking for a unique and cool experience in Naples, the Naples Underground Tour is a must-do. This fascinating tour takes you beneath the bustling streets of Naples to discover a hidden world of ancient aqueducts, Roman theaters, and WWII air-raid shelters. It's a journey through 2,400 years of history, offering a captivating glimpse into the city's past and its layers of civilization. The tour provides an exciting mix of archaeology, history, and adventure, making it perfect for those interested in exploring something off the beaten path. Book your spot on the Naples Underground Tour here.

Castel dell'Ovo: Naples' oldest castle, situated on a small island, offering panoramic views of the city and sea.

Naples National Archaeological Museum: Features one of the world’s finest collections of Greco-Roman antiquities, including artifacts from Pompeii and Herculaneum.

Naples Cathedral (Duomo di Napoli): A stunning Gothic and Baroque cathedral known for housing the relics of San Gennaro (Saint Januarius).

Spaccanapoli: A narrow, historic street that cuts through the heart of the old city, bustling with shops, churches, and vibrant street life.

Piazza del Plebiscito: The grand central square of Naples, surrounded by historic buildings such as the Royal Palace and the Basilica of San Francesco di Paola.

Teatro di San Carlo: Italy’s oldest opera house, renowned for its opulent architecture and exceptional acoustics.

Tour of Underground Naples: Explore the secret passageways, underground chambers, and ancient water reservoirs that lie beneath Naples' urban landscape. Participating in a guided tour provides an opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of the city's past, spanning from the eras of Greek and Roman rule to the events of the Second World War.

Via Toledo and Galleria Umberto I: A bustling shopping street and a beautiful historic gallery with stunning glass ceilings and ornate design.

'Shopping' in Galleria Umberto I

Day Trips from Naples

Mount Vesuvius: The famous volcano providing hiking trails and spectacular views of the Bay of Naples and surrounding areas.

Pompeii and Herculaneum: Ancient Roman cities buried by Mount Vesuvius in 79 AD, offering remarkably well-preserved ancient ruins.

Amalfi Coast: A stunning coastal region known for its picturesque villages, dramatic cliffs, and crystal-clear waters.

Capri: An island famous for its dramatic coastline, luxury boutiques, and the Blue Grotto, a captivating sea cave illuminated by an azure glow.

Sorrento: A charming town overlooking the Bay of Naples, known for its unparalleled views, historic sites, and vibrant lemon groves.

Cilento Coast (Agropoli and Paestum): We spent a month here as digital nomads, enjoying the scenic beauty and historical richness of the Cilento Coast. Agropoli boasts a charming medieval old town and coastal views, while Paestum features well-preserved ancient Greek temples and archaeological sites.

TL;DR: Plan Your Naples Trip (Logistics)

When is the Best Time to Visit Naples?

Naples is delightful year-round, but the summer months can be scorching and crowded. From mid-June to mid-July, the heat can be intense 🥵! Winter brings rain but fewer tourists, making it a great time to explore. Events like Maggio dei Monumenti can raise accommodation costs, so plan accordingly.

Do I Need a Visa for Italy?

• EU, EEA, or Swiss citizens can travel freely.
• UK citizens can stay in the EU up to 90 days in any 180-day period.
• Non-EU travelers should check with the relevant authorities or iVisa for detailed visa requirements.

How to Get To Naples

• By plane: Naples International Airport (Capodichino) is the main gateway, with regular flights from major European cities.
• By train: High-speed trains like Frecciarossa and Italo connect Naples to cities like Rome, Florence, and Milan.
• By bus: Long-distance buses provide scenic routes from other Italian cities.

Internet in Italy/Mobile Internet in Italy

Consider using an eSIM from Airalo for affordable mobile data across Europe. Just ensure your phone is eSIM-compatible and set it up before your trip.

For Wi-Fi cafés in Naples, this guide might help.

Health and Safety in Italy

Naples is generally safe, but like any major city, be mindful of your belongings in crowded areas. Avoid less-populated areas at night and always have travel insurance. We recommend SafetyWing.

How to Get Around Naples

Walking is fantastic, but here are other options:

• 🚍 Public Transportation: The ANM network offers buses, trams, and metro services. Tickets can be bought at tobacco shops or stations.
• 🚲 Biking: Bike rentals are available, but the city’s hills can make it challenging. E-bikes might be a good choice!
• 🚖 Taxis and Ride-Sharing: Taxis are common, but ensure the meter is running. Ride-sharing options like Uber are also available.

What is the Currency in Italy?

Naples uses the Euro (€). Credit cards are widely accepted, but carry some cash for small transactions.

How Much Do I Tip in Italy?

Tipping isn't mandatory but is appreciated for good service. Be aware of the "coperto" charge in restaurants, usually €1-2.

What Else Do I Need to Know about Naples?

• Pack a universal power adapter for Type C or F outlets.
• Naples has a lively, sometimes chaotic atmosphere—embrace it!
• Enjoy Neapolitan pizza in its birthplace but avoid drinking alcohol on public transport.
• Respect local customs when visiting religious sites. But hey, feel free to express your style under that modest outfit! 😎