Gay Berlin Guide: LGBTQ+ Culture, Bars & Hotspots 🇩🇪

Welcome to the ultimate gay Berlin guide.

Berlin is the vibrant capital city of Germany and the kinky capital of the planet! Known for its rich history, progressive attitudes, and thriving gay Berlin community, this city offers an inclusive and welcoming environment for all travelers and always tops the trends in favorite places for gay travelers.

This gay guide to Berlin has it all...whether you're seeking a lively nightlife, delicious culinary experiences, or cultural exploration.

Despite how extensively we've travelled, we call Berlin, the German capital with a vibrant LGBTQ+ community, our home. Ryan has lived there since 2018 and Fabio since 2021. As the city has more 'straight-friendly' venues than 'gay-friendly', it is literally impossible to keep track of all the brimming gay life. We will do our best to tell you the places we love and support with all our heart.

Grab your harnesses, and let's go explore Berlin's gay scene ⛓️!

Your Ultimate Gay Berlin Guide: Where to Stay, Party & Explore

Berlin, the gay capital city of Germany, is a vibrant and diverse destination that has something for everyone. From its rich history to its thriving gay scene, to its absolutely wild Christopher Street Day, to its previously openly gay mayor, this city offers a unique and inclusive experience for gay travelers.

While the city was separated many times in the past (most recently and most literally by the Berlin Wall), it is now a melting pot of culture and gayness.

Berlin's reputation as a gay-friendly city is rooted in its rich history of LGBTQ+ acceptance, marked by a thriving LGBTQ+ Berlin and schwules Berlin culture, LGBTQ+ community during the Weimar Republic era and a resurgence after World War II. Despite the persecution faced during the Nazi regime, Berlin has emerged as a symbol of inclusivity and diversity.

Today, the city boasts legal protections, a vibrant LGBTQ+ scene, and hosts the annual Christopher Street Day parade, making it a beacon of acceptance, and you will for sure notice it everywhere you go.

FAQs: Gay Berlin Travel Tips, Safety & LGBTQ+ Life

What is the gay scene like in Berlin for travelers?

Let’s cut to the chase - Berlin is basically gay heaven on Earth. The city’s anything-goes attitude and vibrant LGBTQ+ friendly atmosphere make it one of Europe’s most welcoming destinations for queer travelers. Whether you’re into the wild parties of Berghain (good luck getting in, honey! 😉) or prefer low-key meetups at Möbel Olfe, there’s something for everyone here.

The gay scene isn’t just concentrated in one area - though the historic Schöneberg district is historically the gay district. These days, you’ll find queer-friendly spots all over, from Kreuzberg’s alternative venues to Neukölln’s hip cafés.

And unlike some cities where gay nightlife is the only option, Berlin’s queer culture is woven into everyday life.

Taking advantage of that neon Boyberry lighting (a bar in Schöneberg)

How can LGBTQ+ newcomers navigate and settle into life in Berlin?

Getting started in Berlin’s gay scene isn’t rocket science, but it does help to know a few things. First up, download those apps! Grindr, Scruff, and Planet Romeo are all popular here.

Want to meet people IRL? Hit up some regular queer events like Cocktail d’Amore or Buttons. And don’t worry if you don’t speak German - Berlin’s queer scene is super international, and English is widely spoken.

Our tip: If you are staying more long-term, joining LGBTQ+ sports groups or social clubs is a great way to make friends without the pressure of the party scene.

What’s dating and social life like for gay people in Berlin?

Dating in Berlin is… interesting. The city’s open-minded dating culture can be liberating or overwhelming, depending on your perspective. Don’t be surprised if someone asks about your kinks before your name - it’s just Berlin being Berlin!

The social scene here is refreshingly diverse. You’ll meet everyone from leather daddies to tech bros, drag queens to academic queers. And age? Whatever. Berlin’s one of those rare places where intergenerational friendships and relationships aren’t given a second thought.

Is Berlin safe for gay travelers? What should they know?

While Berlin is generally super safe for LGBTQ+ folks, common sense still applies (like with any city).

The city’s incredibly open-minded, so people will just smile and smirk if you happen to be wearing your full-blown pride outfit in the streets on a random Wednesday, thinking to themselves "That's so Berlin!".

Public displays of affection are totally fine in most areas, especially in central districts.

It is not entirely unusual to see people walking around the city in outfits like these on any given day.

Are there any cultural norms or etiquette tips for gay travelers in Berlin?`

Germans can seem a bit direct (okay, very direct) at first, but don’t take it personally. What might come across as rudeness is usually just cultural directness. Also, punctuality matters here - “gay time” isn’t really a thing in Berlin like it is in other cities 🤣.

The queer community here is pretty political and socially conscious. Expect conversations about gentrification, trans rights, and climate change alongside your cocktails. It’s part of what makes Berlin’s scene so unique - it’s not just about partying, but about community and activism too.

What are some tips for gay travelers to fully enjoy Berlin?

• Open-mindedness is key in Berlin. If you aren't already open-minded, Berlin will do that for you.
• Explore Berlin’s iconic gay neighborhoods like Schöneberg and Kreuzberg for vibrant queer culture.
• Check out legendary gay bars and clubs like Berghain, SchwuZ, and Möbel Olfe.
• Attend LGBTQ+ events and festivals such as Berlin Pride (Christopher Street Day) and the Lesbian and Gay City Festival.
• Visit historical sites like the Gay Museum (Schwules Museum) to connect with Berlin’s queer history.
• Connect with local LGBTQ+ communities through apps, meetups, or social events.
• Take guided queer walking tours to learn about Berlin’s rich LGBTQ+ history and culture.

Gay Berlin Map: The Best Bars, Clubs & Districts

Berlin’s Top LGBTQ+ Neighborhoods: Where to Stay & Go Out

Most gay men who come to Berlin for the first time stumble upon Schöneberg district, a well-known gay neighborhood Berlin, when doing their research on gay districts in Berlin. While this is technically the most well-known of the gay neighborhoods and there are a smattering of cafés, stores, bars, etc., we find that it caters a bit more to an older crowd.

Don't be afraid of checking out some other neighborhoods, as really Schöneberg, located near Nollendorfplatz, is just a U-bahn (subway) ride away and can be visited.

These are other neighborhoods worth exploring for gay travelers and in actuality, there is no real main gay area in Berlin.

Here are a few other options:

Kreuzberg and Neukölln: Edgy Queer Scenes

Known for its alternative and artistic vibe, Kreuzberg has a lively LGBTQ+ scene. It is home to several queer bars, clubs, and cultural spaces. The neighborhood's multicultural atmosphere and trendy cafés make it a great place to stay. You'll also find the best Turkish food outside of Istanbul here.

Nearby Neukölln has become increasingly popular among the LGBTQ+ community in recent years. It boasts a diverse and inclusive atmosphere, with queer-friendly bars, cafés, and events. The neighborhood is known for its hipster vibe and trendy LGBTQ+ establishments.

A fresh morning in Kreuzberg

Friedrichshain: Near the Nightlife

Located near Kreuzberg, Friedrichshain is another neighborhood with a vibrant LGBTQ+ community. It offers a mix of trendy bars, queer-friendly venues, and a bustling nightlife (Berghain is located in Fhain). Plus, it's close to the iconic East Side Gallery.

You cannot miss the East Side Gallery whilst in Berlin!

Prenzlauer Berg: LGBTQ+ Friendly Hotspots

While Prenzlauer Berg is not as predominantly LGBTQ+ as Schöneberg, it still offers a welcoming environment for queer travelers. It has a charming atmosphere, with picturesque streets, cozy cafés, and a range of LGBTQ+-friendly venues.

The Areas to Avoid

We'd avoid staying in Charlottenburg or Marzahn - run far, far away from these places 🤣. They are safe, but do not offer the liveliness of the other districts (and feels a bit far from the action).

Mitte, considered Central Berlin, isn't a bad place to stay, but I feel it lacks the gay culture of some of these other gayborhoods. Even so, it is still a nice place to set up camp during your stay.

Best Gay-Friendly Hotels & Areas to Stay in Berlin

Luxury Stays for LGBTQ+ Travelers

Axel Hotel Berlin & Urban House

Michelberger

New Berlin

Moxy Ostbanhof

Budget Options with Queer Vibes

For budget-conscious gay travelers, Berlin has several LGBTQ-friendly hostels that offer a comfortable and social atmosphere. Some popular options include Sunflower Hostel and Generator Berlin Prenzlauer Berg. There is even a place called My GayHostel, which, if the name doesn't give away what it is, the slogan will (Your way to stay 100% gay) - a plus is staying there unlocks discounts to shops and cafés around the area.

Berlin’s Best Gay Bars, Clubs, & Saunas: Nightlife You Can’t Miss

There are arguably few other places in the world with more iconic nightlife than Berlin. It has truly corrupted us, and anywhere we go around the world, we sometimes find ourselves thinking, "well...in Berlin it would be like this". While this isn't the best attitude, it is proof that the nightlife in Berlin is immense! In most places, anything goes, and you can do anything your heart desires.

And with that, let's move onto the clubs. We have separate posts about The Best Gay Clubs in Berlin (complete with tips on the lines and the bouncers) as well as The Best Gay Parties in Berlin (referring more to monthly/quarterly parties), so feel free to go into a deep-dive on these pages, but we will also list some here.

Quick Berlin Gay Nightlife Tips

• Most gay venues are cash-only (welcome to Germany!)
• The scene really gets going after midnight and often into the bright hours of the morning
• Don’t be that tourist taking photos in clubs - it’s a huge no-no. Most clubs will put stickers on your phone or in KitKat, they will even make you store them for the night.

Must-Visit Gay Clubs in Berlin

KitKat (Kreuzberg)

KitKat is the place where all pre-conceptions about the world will go out the window. As soon as you enter this club, you leave your clothes at the door and raise your kinkiness level to the maximum. In this post, I write a detailed story about how a night at KitKat changed me forever for the better.

They host a once-monthly Revolver party on Friday's. Beware, it is often a meat-hunting fest, so if you prefer something more queer and balanced, I would check out the weekly Saturday night Carneball Bizarre.

Berghain (Friedrichshain)

Maybe it is overrated, but if you can get in Berghain, it will raise the bar to a level unattainable anywhere else in the world. Berghain, one of the top gay clubs Berlin has, is an iconic Berlin club with 2 dance floors (Berghain and Panorama Bar) situated in a former power plant. Known for its legendary parties and strict door policy, it's a must-visit for techno music enthusiasts. Get ready to dance the night away at this world-famous venue. While Berghain is not an explicitly gay club, it is very queer friendly.

Twice yearly, the adjoining gay sex club, LAB and Berghain join forces putting on Snax. I write my feelings about Snax in this other post, but if you must go (and don't mind the 3-hour lines), it is a quintessential Berlin experience.

Good luck with the long lines and bouncer at Berghain, but once you get in, it's unforgettable!

LAB (Friedrichshain)

As you come up to the line for Berghain, you may see a (typically) smaller line to the left going to the left of the building; this is the entrance to LAB. Open most nights of the week, this is a pure gay sex club that caters to every kink. Make sure you read the website and wear the suggested fetish, as I have been rejected on an athlete's night for walking in with boots and not trainers.

A little trick that sometimes works (but not always): if you go on a Friday/Saturday night here and get a stamp on the way out, you will be able to go through to the Berghain guest list line when it opens.

SchwuZ (Neukölln)

SchwuZ, one of Berlin's largest gay clubs with 3 dance floors, offers a diverse range of LGBT events, including Berlin drag shows. From drag performances to live shows, SchwuZ is a hub of queer culture and entertainment in the Berlin clubs scene.

While I don't think it is a club unique to Berlin, it is a nice, safe bet for a good night out and there will surely be a mixed crowd!

Iconic & Hidden Gay Bars in Berlin

Gay bars are more of a thing than straight bars in Berlin! They tend to be cozy and wonderful places to meet people. I also find them frequented more by locals and expats, so it is a fabulous way to make some Berlin pals. The one thing is that while smoking indoors is generally not allowed in Berlin, everyone does it in these bars, so you might end up leaving smelling like an ashtray and have a second-hand smoke hangover.

Capture Bar (Friedrichshain)

Capture Bar popped up sometime during the pandemic, and it has since become my favorite establishment. Nestled in Friedrichshain, around the corner from the madness of Simon-Dach Strasse, this place always gives off wonderful vibes and the owner is very sweet! Get there early to get some seats near the front!

Capture Bar, our fave in Friedrichshain

Roses Bar (Kreuzberg)

Roses Bar, a long-standing Berlin gay bar with wild interiors (there is literally pink fur lining all the walls). Known for its laid-back vibe, mixed crowd, and slightly terrifying, yet perplexing female bartender, it's a popular choice among gay clubs for its friendly staff and welcoming atmosphere. Enjoy a cocktail or seven and soak in the vibrant LGBTQ energy.

Tipsy Bear (Prenzlauer Berg)

A drag queen bar with some pretty fabulous performances, (https://tipsybearberlin.com/ is a staple of Prenzlauer Berg and boasts the friendliest and loving of crowds. I definitely have had one too many vodka sodas here the night before an early-morning flight, and let's say Tipsy Bear won.

Möbel Olfe (Kreuzberg)

Möbel Olfe is a vibey gay bar in the center of it all, Kottbusser Tor, this is the greatest place to meet people, although you will absolutely come out smelling of an ashtray.

Betty F (Mitte)

A friendly, vivacious bar in Central Berlin, Betty F's has been a staple of the Berlin scene for decades. A drag queen hub 👸.

Although Möbel Olfe may have creepy paintings, it is friendly

Darkrooms & Fetish Spots: Berlin’s Kink Scene

I put this as another category, because finding a bar with a darkroom is actually quite common in Berlin 😅. One minute you are in the bathroom, the next minute you are in a maze of dark corridors. These are the bars with darkroom Berlin does best.

Boyberry Berlin (Schöneberg)

Tom's Bar is no longer and the more youthful and colorful Boyberry has taken its place! This is more like a darkroom with a bar instead of a bar with a darkroom. The upstairs has a bar once you walk in and compared to Tom's Bar, the bar has a lot of activity happening around it, but the focus is also downstairs, which is a big ol' darkroom with lots of fun to be had.

The Boyberry upstairs bar is filled with friendly people

Ficken 3000 (Neukölln)

Again, more like a darkroom with a bar instead of a bar with a darkroom. With a similar layout to Tom's, at Ficken 3000 you'll have your choice of darkroom bars across this massive city. In recent times, I have found the darkroom has become more of a place for socializing than physical action, likely because people are trying to escape the smokiness of the first floor 🤣.

Berlin’s Top Gay Saunas

If you're visiting Berlin and looking for a unique experience, don't miss out on the gay sauna scene.

Der Boiler Berlin (Kreuzberg)

If you are looking for the top gay sauna Berlin has to offer, look no further than Der Boiler. Located in the heart of the city, Boiler Berlin offers a haven (or heaven) for gay men to unwind, socialize, and indulge in some well-deserved relaxation (and a labyrinth of steam 😈).

The sauna boasts modern amenities, including steam rooms, saunas, and hot tubs, providing the perfect setting to rejuvenate after a day of exploring Berlin. Whether you're a local or a tourist, a visit to Boiler Berlin, arguably the best gay sauna in Berlin, is a must to immerse yourself in the vibrant and inclusive Berlin LGBTQ+ community.

Vabali (Moabit)

Okay, so warning: this is not a gay sauna at all, but I could not figure out how to categorize this 🤣. Vabali is the perfect post-party, post-weekend spa with relaxing pools all around its Bali-like grounds, delicious Indonesian-fusion cuisine, and sweaty saunas. You will need to be naked there, but it is both male and female, so do not get the wrong idea that it is a sex sauna like BOILER 😉. It is an innocent, beautiful place to relax and rejuvenate.

Where to Eat in Berlin: Gay-Friendly & Trendy Restaurants

That seemed like a lot of bars, clubs, saunas, and darkrooms, but as Berlin is known for hedonism, it wouldn't be fair if I didn't get them off my chest first.

But if you are not a clubber, you will have to eat something, and Berlin is a paradise for food lovers. From traditional German restaurants to international cuisines, Berlin has something to satisfy every palate. If you're pondering over where to eat in Berlin, Germany, here are some of the top restaurants in Berlin that not only showcase Berlin cuisine but are also popular stops on food tours.

We made a post on the best restaurants in Berlin, but below is a bit of guidance and some restaurant recommendations.

Don't settle for currywurst or Mustafa's Gemüse Kebab

Currywurst is meant to be one of the staples of Berlin, but honestly, it is just a cut up hot dog with ketchup and a weird sprinkle of curry powder. I would give it a miss.

While kebab is another staple of Berlin, you can find equally good and even better kebab than forcing yourself to wait in line at Mustafa's Gemüse (vegetarian) kebab (coincidentally right next to Boiler).

If you really want the best Berlin kebab, check out:

Oase (Friedrichshain)

This unsuspecting little place has been my favorite Berlin doner kebab ever since I have come to the city. While Oase doesn't provide the traditional Berlin döner in the bread (they prefer to use wraps), the flavor and sauces are on-point. My favorite is the falafel and halloumi im bröt (falafel and halloumi in bread). It is also one of the extremely cheap restaurants Berlin has on offer.

Nefis Gemüse Kebab (Kreuzberg/Neukölln)

If you really want to go for the traditional vegetarian kebab in Berlin, check out Nefis. The crew is super nice and the kebab is to die for - one of many vegetarian restaurants Berlin is known for.

Embrace the Berlin Vietnamese Restaurant Scene

Berlin has seen a significant influx of Vietnamese immigrants over the years, resulting in a thriving Vietnamese restaurant scene in the city. After the Vietnam War, many Vietnamese people fled their country, seeking refuge and opportunities abroad. Germany, specifically Berlin, became a popular destination due to its strong economy and job prospects.

The Vietnamese community in Berlin has since grown, with many individuals and families opening restaurants to share their culture and cuisine with the local population. The Berlin restaurant scene has flourished as a result, offering a wide range of authentic Vietnamese dishes and flavors that have become increasingly popular among locals and tourists alike.

Dong Xuan Center

This is the cultural and economic hub of the Vietnamese community. While a little out of the way from the center, the Dong Xuan Center is worth it if you want to see a fascinating side of Berlin...and smother yourself in Vietnamese goodies (they also do good Afghani food).

Gotcha (Friedrichshain)

A more contemporary Vietnamese restaurant, Gotcha has been my go-to restaurant since 2018, when I first discovered it. The menu may not be authentically Vietnamese, but the flavors are hard to beat. Plus the vibe on Simon Dach Strasse during the summer is infectious. Even if you aren't vegetarian, try out the Buddha Bowl 🤩.

Anh Ba Restaurant (Neukölln)

One word, pho. The pho is fabulous at this restaurant, and in the midst of winter, this is a massive, delicious immunity booster.

Try German/Austrian/Swiss food, but avoid the Brauhaus Scene

Surprisingly (or unsurprisingly), international faire is more common than German food around the city, but that is likely because of the stereotypes around German food being bland. Even so, there are some places that totally defy these assumptions, and they are not the touristy brauhaus (brew houses) that are famous to Munich.

Klinke (Kreuzberg)

Think German tapas, at Klinke you will get to sample all the German grandmother-made specialities. And for dessert, make sure to get the Kaiserschmarrn.

Klinke German/Austrian-style tapas. Lecker!

Mutzenbacher (Kreuzberg)

One word: Wienerschnitzel. Mutzenbacher does it best.

Schwarze Heidi Fondue (Friedrichshain)

Schwarze Heidi is a little pop-up, cozy fondue restaurant that only is available during the winter months. This is basically the closest you will ever get to becoming Swiss.

Head to some Food Markets

For a unique dining experience, head to Markthalle Neun (Kreuzberg), a historic market hall that hosts a variety of food stalls and events. From street food to artisanal products, there's something for everyone at this vibrant culinary hub, making it a key destination for Berlin food tours and a showcase of Berlin cuisine in the bustling Berlin markets. It's one of the Berlin highlights for food lovers.

Another one, only on Saturdays, is the food market at Boxhagener Platz (Friedrichshain).

Some of the best Italian Restaurants Berlin is known for, because, well Fabio 🇮🇹🤌

• Nudelbude (Neukölln) - Pasta heaven
• The GRAIN, Berlin (Prenzlauer Berg) - Honestly some of the best Neapolitan-style pizza we have had in any place on this planet. I miss the dough everyday.
• Cargo (Friedrichshain) - Sicilian-style street food
• Marco Polo Uno (Lichtenberg) - Cosy, Italian trattoria
• Osteria Sippi (Kreuzberg/Neukölln) - Banging aperitivo
• Spumante (Kreuzberg) - Another excellent little aperitivo place, with randomly scrumptious Greek salads.

Happy boys at Spumante

And some other restaurants in Berlin that we love

• Gio's Georgian (Kreuzberg) - Georgian food (almost as good as what you'll get in actual Georgia).
• Lasan Restaurant (Kreuzberg) - Iraqi/Kurdish
• It's a long story (Neukölln) - Fab Turkish-style brunch
• Our previous post on the 5 Best Restaurants in Berlin

Banging vegan Turkish brunch at It's a long story

What to Do in Berlin: LGBTQ+ History, Tours & Sights

Berlin, a city rich in history and culture, offers numerous landmarks and attractions to explore. Whether you're interested in art, history, or architecture, Berlin has it all. These Berlin landmarks and sights are essential for sightseeing and exploring Berlin's rich architecture and tourism, making them the perfect things to do in Berlin over the weekends. Also, don't forget to visit the Berlin museums.

Check out all the big sites (which can be done realistically in an afternoon)

Start at East Side Gallery in Friedrichshain to get a glimpse of a large section of the Berlin Wall, the mega wall which separated East Berlin from West Berlin. It is currently spattered with permanent and temporary murals, it is a must-see if you are visiting Berlin.

Take a long walk along the Spree river and down Mühlenstraße to Alexanderplatz to check out the Fernsehturm (TV Tower), Berlin's tallest building and an icon of East Berlin.

Take the U-Bahn to Unter den Linden and walk up to the Brandenburg Gate, most assuredly one of Berlin's most iconic landmarks, symbolizing the reunification of East Germany and West Germany.

Head into the outright shocking Memorial to the Murdered Jews and stroll into Tiergarten or head to Museum Island, to explore the rich history and art of Berlin in these cultural institutions.

Checkpoint Charlie is and will always be very underwhelming, so I would give it a miss 🤣.

Or even better, do it with a tour-guide

The first time I had my mother visit me in Berlin, we did a tour and I learned so much about the city, helping me to appreciate it even more. Without a guide, I would have walked over Hitler's bunker like a million times without ever knowing what it was 🫣.

I recommend either booking a private tour with Marriette, our friend from North England who has been giving banging, top quality tours in Berlin since moving there in 2006.

Or if you are trying to do things on a budget, book a free group tour with Sandemans New Europe.

The world's biggest butt plug?

Go to The Sphere in the TV Tower

We went here hesitantly for a little anniversary surprise thinking it might be a tourist trap (considering I have lived in the city for many years), but it was actually one of the highlights of all the things I have ever done in Berlin.

Book a restaurant reservation around sunset and enjoy a "German-style" aperitivo or dinner while rotating 360 degrees around Berlin. It will give you perspective on just how big the city is.

Check out the Schwules Museum

The Gay Museum of Berlin has been offering rich insight into the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals since 1985! It isn't so common that a city has a gay museum, so you need to check it out!

Wander Tempelhofer Feld

An old airport for West Berlin, this is now a massive park in Neukölln. If you have a run around it, it is well over 5 kilometers. Every part of it feels sublime and in the summer, there is no place in the world with more things happening.

Head to some lakes

If it is summer, check out some of the nature that this city is known for! Some of the most popular lakes for gays are Kaulsdorfer Seen or Teufelsee. At most of these, you can sunbathe naked (thanks to FKK culture) and these two have the best cruising opportunities. If you are looking for something more down-to-earth and scenic, I would recommend Krumme Lanke or nearby Schlachtensee.

That day we had an aphrodite-themed party next to Krumme Lanke

Or even charter a little boat (floss): Boat Trips Berlin

Summer is also a fabulous time to charter a small boat that you and your friends can drive yourselves. They tend to be equipped with a barbecue, and you can bring a cooler of drinks to ensure a wild time. You generally have to book well in advanced, unless you are booking during the week, so if you are in the early days of planning your trip, don't wait!

Some sites to book (you may need to translate):

• Berlin Bootsverleih
• Floss Und Los

And do some more things like the Berliners would do

In our other post, we highlight some alternative things to do in Berlin that most tourists wouldn't know about. This includes going to an art exhibit in a bunker, doing a DJ workshop (for it is Berlin), doing an escape room that takes you from "East" to "West" Berlin, or hanging out on a massive airfield converted into a park.

Floating down the lake on our little boat

Gay-Owned Shops & LGBTQ+ Friendly Shopping in Berlin

If you are looking for some gay fetish gear, to be club-ready to start, head to Schöneberg. Just walking off the station and heading towards the gay café, Romeo und Romeo, you will come across a few shops to buy gay fetish wear. My favorites gay shops in Berlin are Bruno's and GEAR.

If you were ever looking for silicon tentacles, Berlin is the place to buy them 😏

If gay fetish isn't your calling, Berlin offers a diverse shopping experience regardless, with everything from high-end designer boutiques to vintage markets, as well as a vibrant vintage culture, particularly in areas like Kreuzberg. Here are some shopping places in Berlin to explore:

Hackescher Markt

A trendy neighborhood known for its boutique shops, independent designers, stylish concept stores, and a variety of restaurants. Explore the area, including Hackescher Markt, and discover unique fashion, and accessories.

RAW

An old rail yard, converted into restaurants, bars, rock-climbing walls, nightclubs and more, this becomes a vintage flea market on Sundays. If you can't make it on a Sunday, it is still super cool to explore, and then nearby Friedrichshain with its small boutiques can fill that void.

Mauerpark Flea Market

If you're a fan of vintage treasures and unique finds, don't miss the Mauerpark Flea Market, one of the most popular Berlin markets. This bustling market offers a wide range of clothing, antiques, vinyl records, and much more.

Berlin’s Biggest Gay Events & Pride Festivals

Gay events are literally always happening in Berlin, so I will make a separate post for that, or this will be entirely too long. But if you absolutely have to make any, check out:

Christopher Street Day Parade/Berlin Gay Pride (annually, end of July)

The Christopher Street Day parade in Berlin is an event that celebrates and advocates for LGBTQ+ rights and equality. It is a vibrant and colorful parade that attracts people from all over the world. Attending the parade is an opportunity to show support for the LGBTQ+ community and stand up against discrimination. The Christopher Street Day parade in Berlin is an inclusive and empowering event that promotes love, acceptance, and equality for all.

What makes it different from other PRIDE parades that I have been to is that everyone can actually walk in the parade. Find a music float you love and walk the route all the way to Brandenburg Gate.

Us being major silly gooses with our friend at CSD

Folsom Europe (September)

A street fair that happens in September, Folsom Europe is the continent's largest BDSM and leather subculture event. It is certain to get kinky!

WHOLE Festival (August)

Undoubtedly one of the queerest festivals nearby Berlin (in Ferropolis), WHOLE is a wild ride. You can buy tickets for the following year, usually in November or December of the previous year, but I recommend just watching them on TicketSwap and buying them closer to the date.

There tends to be a surplus of people putting tickets up for sale, and the price can sometimes drop to a quarter of the price of the original!

Queer Arts & Alternative Entertainment in Berlin

Berlin, known for its thriving arts and entertainment scene, hosts numerous Berlin festivals and Berlin events. The city boasts of numerous theatres, galleries, and music venues, including Berlin musicals, Berlin comedy, and Berlin cabaret. Here are some highlights:

Berlin Philharmonic

Experience the world-class music of the Berlin Philharmonic at their iconic concert hall, or catch a performance by the renowned Berliner Ensemble. Enjoy classical masterpieces and contemporary performances in a stunning setting.

Berlinale Film Festival

If you're a film lover, don't miss the Berlinale, one of the most prestigious Berlin festivals in the world. Catch screenings of international films and experience the excitement of the red carpet at these Berlin events.

Christmas Markets

If you happen to come to Berlin in the dead of winter (before Christmas), you will catch the Christmas markets, which are famous all around Germany! Our favorites are the gay market in Nollendorfplatz and the medieval Christmas market at RAW Gelande.

We're not cold...

Plan Your Trip: Berlin Gay Travel Tips & Logistics

When is the best time to visit Berlin? ☀️

Berlin is best in the spring or summer. Beware that as of recent years (thanks, global warming), the interior of buildings can get hot in the heat of summer, but it is undoubtedly the best time to come. Winters can be pretty bleak and gray, unless you are coming for specific holidays like Christmas (for the markets) and New Year's.

What visa do I need for Germany?

Germany is in the EU and Schengen, so if you have a Schengen visa, you are good to go! For those coming from the US, you can stay up to 90 days at a time (during any 180-day period).

For your specific requirements, have a look at iVisa.

How do I get to Berlin?

Berlin Brandenburg Airport (BER) is the only airport near Berlin, Germany, but it is pretty efficient (minus the occasional long security lines). Have a look at flights here.

If you are flying in, don't pay exorbitant amounts for a taxi or Uber to get to the city. Instead, download the BVG app, head to tickets, and buy a Zone ABC ticket (it will validate it as soon as you pay for it). You can get to the center of the city with the FEX train in no time. You can also use that ticket on an S-Bahn or another regional train if you've happened to miss it.

As it is Central Europe, it is super well-connected by both train and bus. Have a look at FlixBus for buses (and FlixTrains) or Omio for trains. You can generally buy trains to Berlin Hauptbahnhof, Gesundbrunnen, and Südkreuz for the same price, so try to locate the nearest station to you before booking.

Internet and Data in Berlin 🛜

The latest alternative that we have been using when travelling is eSIMs. We use Airalo religiously. Through them, you can get an e-SIM that has coverage for most countries in Europe for much cheaper than roaming. Just make sure to research whether your phone is e-SIM compatible before buying an e-SIM.

If you go this way, buy it before your trip and make sure you set it up beforehand as well (and turn off your normal SIM before connecting to data).

If you are from other EU countries, you should be able to just use the local networks without an issue.

Health and Safety in Berlin 🏥

Berlin is an extremely safe city.

As you probably gathered, it is very LGBTQ+ friendly, so even showing affection in public should generally not be problematic.

There is a heavy drug problem, so some stations on the U8 (U-Bahn) between Hermmannstrasse and Kottbusser Tur may feel a bit sketchy, but it is uncommon to be bothered by anyone. Gorlitzer Park can also feel a bit sketchy too, as there are pushers trying to sell there, but just ignore them and move on (or don't 😈).

Nevertheless, make sure you get your travel medical insurance!

Getting Around Berlin 🚘

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The public transportation is very reliable in Berlin! As mentioned, download the BVG app (particularly if you know you will have data) and buy tickets whenever you ride.

Here is a list of all the ticket options. I like to buy the Zones AB 4-ticket packs, as I generally only ride once or twice per day and those are cheaper than buying individually. A normal ticket is valid for 2 hours on all public transportation forms (there are even random ferries in the east) and everything you will want to visit, except the airport, will generally be in the AB Zones.

When you first purchase a ticket via the app, even a pack, the first ticket will validate automatically. Subsequent tickets will need to be validated manually through the app later (multiple tickets can be validated at once).

You can also buy from the automated kiosks on the platforms, but make sure to validate the ticket yourself at one of the ticket validating poles (what is this called 😅) also on the platform.

Make sure to validate your tickets! If you get caught in a random check on the train or bus, you will have to pay 60 euros and will be publicly shamed 🤣. I know this from experience! Never f*** with a German trust system!

If you come around X-Mas, you might get to ride this vintage Christmas S-Bahn

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For a fun alternative, take share bikes or e-scooters around the city. Berlin currently has services like Voi, Lime, but the cheapest is Bolt's e-scooter service. Berlin is a wonderful biking city, with the safest bike lanes I have found in a European city, so also renting from kiosks around are a great option. Do a Google search to find the best options 🤪.

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Berlin has standard taxi apps like Uber and Bolt, which can range from super cheap during low demand to outrageously expensive.

Cash/Tipping Culture in Berlin 💁‍♂️

While the world moves forward with card payments and more high-tech electronic payments, Berlin (and much of Germany) is stuck in the past with its cash-reliant system! Make sure to have cash on you at smaller restaurants and bars as a back-up.

For tips, it is totally okay to just round up on a bill. For example, if the bill is 46 euro, rounding up to 50 is fine. A maximum of 10 percent is generally expected.

Other Berlin Things 😼

• Currency - Euro (€)

• Power Plugs - Type C, F - But do yourself a favor and pick up a universal converter.

Oh yeah, stay sexy (but poor) Berlin

Some more European Gay Guides:

• The Gay Guide to Cologne, Germany
• The Gay Guide to Frankfurt, Germany
• The Gay Guide to London, United Kingdom
• The Gay Guide to Bristol, United Kingdom
• The Gay Guide to Venice, Italy